I noticed this was a search phrase that resulted in a link to one of my posts here. In response, I post the Human Rights Campaign’s Joe Solmonese response to Stephen Colbert’s question along similar lines: Link
If you don’t have time to go there, a briefer response: that’s the whole point of being gay. One might as well ask why fish swim and birds fly. Or more to the point, why straight guys are not attracted to men. Actually, I sometimes ask myself this question — late at night, alone. Okay, just kidding. Bogus unrequited love stuff is definitely a waste of time.
But really if one is asking scientifically WHY some guys are gay. As in gosh it’s so anti-adaptive and seemingly the genes for being gay should exit the gene pool (Actually, you must be a Dane or Swede reading English!! Americans don’t believe in evolution, even if they’re gay.) But this is a different question: please go to my post entitled: Gays, Evolution: Population Control.
However, if one is just talking more casually as in, “why gay guys seem to hate or dislike women”, this generally isn’t true. One shouldn’t misconstrue indifference for hate. LOL Is there a kind of jealousy factor in the beginning — because women seem to get most of the “great” men? Maybe. But in the end it’s not true, I don’t think, though I guess I’m probably biased and/or rationalizing.